Seniors Living Alone

Almost every day in our business, I am reminded that seniors living alone sometimes need a little extra help. Last week a feisty, independent and proud senior needed some assistance plugging in her medical alert system. After she spoke with one of our customer service representatives, the call was accelerated to me. The poor lady could not find her telephone jack. When I suggested to her that her daughter could help solve the problem in 3 minutes, she got insulted and threatened to return the unit ! Then tearfully , she told me how painful it was for her to ask for help from her daughter. She indicated getting her daughter to help her was like pulling teeth. I contacted the daughter to explain the situation. The daughter explained to me that she had already told her Mother that she (the daughter)would hook up the system later that day. About three hours later the daughter called me to report that she had painlessly installed the system in minutes by following the E-Z written directions and it worked perfectly. Sometimes the tension between parent and adult children grows as the roles reverse and the adult child becomes the caretaker. Fortunately everyone got what they wanted. The daughter and the mother both get peace of mind they deserve from their new medical alarm.